Personal Message from the President to the Skylar Family - Season Greetings '05
Huntington, NY, Dec. 25 - As a young boy, I remember the joy and anticipation I had during the Christmas season. When the month of December came around, I knew it was only days before Christmas Eve was here. Of course, I looked forward to what Santa was going to leave my brothers and I under the Christmas tree but, as I see things now, my joy stemmed not from receiving nicely wrapped gifts with brightly colored bows; my gifts were wrapped in human flesh and filled with love.
Our Christmas holidays were packed with trips to the mall, Christmas music, trees with colorful lights and handmade decorations, Christmas Eve services, warm fires in the fireplace, homemade meals, and wonderful Christmas parties. These were and still are great aspects of the holiday season. But now I see that the most treasured part of the season was being with my family. It was spending quality time with them. So, for example, as I stood outside our home covering our house with Christmas lights with my brothers and father, it wasn't so much about decorating our home as it was special time with my dad and brothers. Laughter could be heard continually and stories of years past were shared. But underlying every discussion there was a message conveyed to each member: that you were dearly loved. Now, when I get to be with my family during the Christmas holiday, the time with them has so much more meaning for me.
Of course, the Christmas season has much importance to me because of my faith. Especially during this time of year, it has a lot to do with setting aside time for reflecting on the true meaning of Christmas and how it relates to my life. I understand that Christmas isn't celebrated by everyone. That is part of the great joy about living in America. But even if you don't embrace the Christian faith, I think we can all agree that there is something very special about the notion of family and the gifts we can be to one another.
When was the last time you told a family member "thank you"? When was the last time you thanked your mom and dad for being your parents, even as imperfect as they are? What about your siblings or maybe your own children? When was the last time you allowed the words, "I love you" roll off your tongue? Even if you plan on giving gifts to your loved ones, don't let that replace your ability to tell someone how much you appreciate him/her. Perhaps that may be the greatest gift you could ever give them.
I personally want to wish you a wonderful holiday season.
Blessings to you,
Justin Agoglia